Do you need a Breakdown Cover?

Flor Taboada blog, Emotional healing, Healing, Heartbreak, Self-care

I recently upgraded the breakdown cover for my car. It is called Rescue plus!It covers you at home or away.It gives me peace of mind to know that someone has my back. This breakdown cover made me think of my one to one programme clients and the comprehensive “cover” they get. I don’t rescue anyone,I hold space so they can …

Addicted to him? Your body says so

Flor Taboada blog, Emotional healing, Healing, Heartbreak, Lovingkindness, Self-care

You miss him and it really hurts. You are totally overwhelmed with feelings of sadness, grief, confusion, anger at times and even suicidal despair, to name a few. The emotional challenges that a breakup or a divorce bring are countless. And the pain is real. So real that it can be seen on brain scans. Seriously. Brain studies done on people after a romantic rejection …

Self-loving-kindness

Flor Taboada blog, Emotional healing, Healing, Heartbreak, Self-care

Don’t waste your time trying to change others Or fighting with the reality of your life. You cannot change others but you can change the way you relate with yourself. Today, right now, in this very moment, you can choose acceptance over denial You can choose loving-kindness over hard judgement. You can choose to acknowledge even if just one thing …

Borage Flower Essence

Flor Taboada blog, Emotional healing, Flower Essences, Healing, Heartbreak

Borago officinalis. Another beautiful flower essence for the heart “The Borage takes us into positive weight and depth with her beautiful downward pointing azure star. This plant is so foundational for states of emotional heaviness and depression, helping us to honor and integrate deeper feelings of grief, loss or depression.  It is truly one of the plants that helps us …

Feet on the ground-Clematis Flower Essence

Flor Taboada blog, Children, Emotional healing, Flower Essences, Healing, Lifestyle, School, Self-care, Stress

Today I visited a friend in Jersey City and look what I found growing in her garden! The lovely dreamy and sweet scented Clematis Vitalba. The essence made from its flowers helps us keep our  feet on the ground and develop an interest for the here and now. Head in the clouds? Love daydreaming, napping and sleeping? Are you someone with great imagination …

You are enough

Flor Taboada blog, Emotional healing, Healing, Heartbreak, Lovingkindness, Self-care

I hear it over and over again “What did I do wrong” ?” If I had/hadn’t ________ perhaps we would still be together” “There is something wrong with me”. I hear you but I’m sorry to say that it isn’t always about you. Sometimes in life things don’t work out but it doesn’t need to be because of YOU. You …