4 steps to Setting Healthy Boundaries

Flor Taboada Boundaries, Self-esteem

In my group Program, Loving your Imperfect Self, we have been working on personal boundarie. Often, we may not know what boundaries are or how to set them, especially if we have a story of having had them violated repeatedly over the years. Think of your boundaries as some sort of guidelines or set of rules that show others how …

This is what feeling enough is really like

Flor Taboada blog, Boundaries, Emotional healing, Lovingkindness, Self love, Self-confidence, Self-esteem

If our self-esteem and sense of worth are shaky, having the courage to go for what you want in life is basically an impossible task. Lacking assertiveness, self-esteem, and self-worth usually go hand in hand with a risk-averse personality. Difficult to know which goes 1st In the work I do with my clients, we start with the core which is …

Your emotional inner-core strength

Flor Taboada Boundaries, Emotional healing, Lovingkindness, Self-empowerment, Self-esteem

What we tolerate is the way we are teaching others how they can treat us. For some of us, especially women, it can be really hard to assert ourselves. Especially if we are “people pleasers” or “conflict or confrontation avoiders” or both. If our self-esteem and sense of worth is shaky, asserting ourselves is basically an impossible task. Because assertiveness, …

On boundaries

Flor Taboada Boundaries, Breakup, Divorce, Emotional healing, Healing, Heartbreak, Self-care, Self-empowerment, Self-esteem

The boundaries you set for yourself are as important as the ones you set for him or others. And this is particularly important while you are healing from a breakup or a divorce. If boundaries are all about showing people how to treat you with respect. Are you treating yourself with that same respect? Things like: Being firm yet gentle …