Give yourself time

Flor Taboada Breakup, Divorce, Emotional healing, Healing, Heartbreak, Lovingkindness, Relationships, Self-empowerment, Self-esteem, Support

Breakup.

Divorce.

Separation.

Whether you have already left or have been left, recently or time ago.

Whether you are in the final stages of a divorce after challenging years.

Or want to leave behind a relationship that is no longer working, and perhaps hasn’t worked for a long time, and are in the process of building up the strength, confidence and courage to take the leap.

No matter the stage they are at, often all the women I spoke and work with have something in common; the feeling that they should be somewhere different from where they are in their healing process.

That feeling that they should “be over it” already, or that they should have left long time ago or that they should be by now in another relationship, or never feel down again as if we, humans, could be fixed forever.

My message to you if you are one of these women is that you are exactly where you need to be. Because if you were meant to be further ahead you would be.

Trust yourself and your timing.

This doesn’t mean that you should sit and do nothing.

On the contrary it means being kind with yourself and accepting where you are while you keep putting one foot in front of the other without losing track of your destination.

What do you want for yourself other than a partner?

Baby steps are good.

Get the support you need in order to get clarity and be guided and escorted in this, often lonely, process.

There is nothing more beautiful and more rewarding than the journey back home to ourselves.

But this is a lifelong task with twists and turns, ups and downs.

You are work in process.

Keep going.

Thank you to all the women that put their trust in me to allow me to guide them through this.

I believe in you wholeheartedly.

It is an honour to support you.

With love

Flor xoxo