I hear it over and over again
“What did I do wrong” ?”
If I had/hadn’t ________ perhaps we would still be together” “There is something wrong with me”.
I hear you but I’m sorry to say that it isn’t always about you.
Sometimes in life things don’t work out but it doesn’t need to be because of YOU.
You have done your best.
You have showed up.
You have opened your heart.?
There is nothing fundamentally wrong about you.
Nothing.
Of course you, like me, and the 99.9% of the population, probably have some issues to work on.
Attitudes to shift.
Outdated beliefs  and patterns to let go off.
A few hurts, disappointments and even traumas to heal.
There might be inner work to do, yes.
But despite all that.
Despite everything you have been through.
Despite that broken and tired heart?
Your essence remains intact.
Despite all that.
Healing is possible.
Don’t give up on yourself.
Don’t give up on love.
You ARE ENOUGH.
Repeat this to yourself,
As many times as you need.
You are enough
Period.

Photo: my little nephew’s baby swimming pool ?